Grieving is natural. It is a process that happens when we are adjusting our minds and bodies when we encounter a feeling of loss of someone or something. At its extreme it may be the loss of a loved one, a close friend, or a pet. It can also happen when there is a major disruption in your life. This could occur when a relationship ends, there is a job loss, or some other firmly established routine gets disrupted. It is important to realize that this process has a beginning and an end. When the end never seems to occur, then help may be warranted.
I have often written that we think and exist in terms of patterns. These are patterns of understanding, expectation, and behavior. Physically, they are represented by networks of neurons in your brain and the repeated responses in your body. (We call those responses feelings.) The more that a pattern is recalled or accessed, the...
What is happiness? Some would define it in terms of being contented with what you have or are experiencing at the moment. Others would explain it in terms of what they own, where they live, and how much money they make. As a therapist, people frequently tell me that they determine their happiness by how others treat or regard them. Unfortunately, in that case they have completely surrendered their happiness to the whims of others. That is not a condition that I recommend.
However, I am now going to recommend that you consider another approach to happiness. Consider your dominant thoughts. Are you constantly ruminating and worrying about something that happened in your past? Or, are you obsessing about an event that may occur in the future? All the while, you are ignoring every passing moment. Just think of all the beauty that you are missing. Perhaps, if you took some time to...
These are some of my favorite inspirational commitment quotes.
“Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.” – Anthony Robbins
“There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results.” – Author Unknown
“Commitment unlocks the doors of imagination, allows vision, and gives us the "right stuff" to turn our dreams into reality.” – James Womack
“Desire is the key to motivation, but it's determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek.” – Mario Andretti
“It was character that got us out of bed, commitment that moved us into action, and discipline that enabled us to follow through.” – Zig...
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Today, Rep. Zach Wyatt (R-Adair) stood up to the hate and bigotry shown by some colleagues in the Missouri legislature and called for the withdrawal of HB 2051, the "Don't Say Gay" bill sponsored by 20 bigoted members of the republican party. Joined by Rep. Stacey Newman and others, Wyatt called on Speaker Steve Tilley, Majority Leader Tim Jones, HB2051 Sponsor Steve Cookson and the other 17 cosponsors of the so-called “Don’t Say Gay” legislation to withdraw their support from the bill and commit to not introducing similar language in future legislative sessions.
In the process of speaking against HB 2051, Rep. Wyatt also came out. In his own words:
Stand with me as a proud republican, a proud veteran, and a proud gay man who wants to protect all kids by addressing bullying in our schools.
According to PROMO Executive Director AJ Bockelman, Rep. Wyatt becomes the only openly gay republican legislator currently serving at the state level in the country.
Click here for Rep. Wyatt's statement denouncing HB2051 from last week.
Just off the Plaza in Kansas City this morning, around 35 folks attended the annual shareholder meeting of Great Plains Energy, the parent company of Kansas City Power & Light (KCP&L). We attended as (real) shareholders to deliver a simple message: While KCP&L executives hit the 99 Percent with rate hikes and give themselves raises, they need to pay their fair share of taxes. During the meeting, upset shareholders delivered a tax bill to Great Plains for $368M that the rest of us will have to make up to fund our public systems and structures.
The most powerful moment of the whole morning (for me) actually came after the organized shareholders were escorted from the room. As the last shouting shareholder left, a man who identified himself as a Great Plains/KCP&L shareholder since "age five” complained about the disruption of the meeting, but then took outgoing CEO Michael Chesser and incoming CEO Terry Bassham to task for their exorbitant, ever-growing compensation packages while shareholders saw smaller dividends and consumers saw higher rates. Minutes later, an angry senior unsatisfied with the CEOs’ answer asked the question again – why do the 1% keep getting richer when the 99% fall further behind?
That is the question, isn’t it?
Here’s some video of the scene outside the shareholder meeting:
A couple of shots of the old Ste. Genevieve cemetery while I figure out when there might be time to shoot some new stuff. As I've mentioned, the town was settled by the French after their country took control of the Louisiana Territory from Spain. Apparently they were hardy people, as M. and Mme. Valle lived into their 80s. No Obamacare then, either.
As a speaker of 21st Century English, the gravestone in the bottom photo is pretty funny. Sure, the language was more formal one or two centuries ago, but it seems like the deceased is being damned by faint praise, as the saying has it.
Sorry for the lack of comments yesterday. I just got home from work way too late.
These faeries, however, have a bit of spunk. Maybe they are the faeries' friends and not card-carrying members themselves. They make you think of a Tolkien novel or the supernumaries in a production of A Midsummer Night's Dream. I'll catch up with them again out at the Faire.
This country has a long romantic relationship with guns: frontier spirit, hunting, my home is my castle, stand your ground - on and on. They are part of many people's life-long tradition. Me, I ave no interest in guns. They exist mostly for the purpose of killing some being. Now, years ago I tried plunking some beer cans with a .22. I've tried shooting clay pigeons with a shotgun along with my brothers-in-law and nephews, all delightful people, on the old family farm in Kansas. (I can't hit a tree, let alone a moving target.) But there may be 75-80,000 people at this convention and Missouri allows anyone with a permit to carry a concealed hand gun. And Mitt Romney is in town today to speak to them. Too scary.
So, Mrs. C and I are heading out of town for the weekend to the picturesque village of Ste. Genevieve, an hour down river. I think it was the first French settlement west of the Mississippi. Plus which, Saturday is our anniversary. (Number 38, thank you.) I think I'll put off more of the lady ruggers till next week. Today is the home opening game for the defending baseball champions, our St. Louis Cardinals. Your faithful blogger will be there with, um, several lenses. Pix of that on Saturday and Ste. Gen by Sunday.