Fingernail biting is a compulsive behavior that is very often started during a person’s pre-teen or teen years. It is normally a type of defensive reaction that occurs when a young person encounters a threatening situation that they cannot understand. While I’ve seen this occur in situations where there has been a significant stress in the home – to include frequent relocations and abuse – it frequently starts when a seemingly simple event occurs.
One example of this involved a young thirteen year old boy who had been chewing his nails since the age of nine. In this case, the young man was in a very normal, loving family. There were no problems such as frequent moving or arguing parents. However, there was a very significant event that occurred back when he was nine. Late one Saturday night he and his father had been sitting on the sofa watching television. After several...
In our culture alcohol consumption has often been synonymous with being socially accepted. Somehow we have linked the ingestion of these liquids, which everyone knows contains toxic substances, to our desire to be socially connected. It has always been the baby boomers version of Facebook and Twitter. In fact, decades ago while serving as a young Army officer, it would have been considered an insult not to share a few “cold ones” with the men as a form of celebration. I’m not saying the Generation X and Y’ers are immune to becoming alcoholics. It seems to be a problem that transcends generations. Yet, when we allow occasional or moderate use to become a compulsion, then we have transitioned from participating in a social activity to developing and maintaining an addiction, which can easily ruin relationships, end careers, and even end in death.
When do the effects of drinking...
More than likely you have more to appreciate than you think? I know that for many people times are tough. Too many people are out of work. The Recession has left many of us with a tremendous decrease in income and revenue while our debts and bills remain the same – or are getting worse. However, look around you. If you start a list of everything and everybody that you appreciate in life, you will most likely find that your wealth is much greater than you ever considered.
My favorite Christmas movie is the 1946 Frank Capra movie It’s a Wonderful Life, staring Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed. In the film, when George Bailey, the main character, finds himself in a terrible financial dilemma he becomes convinced that everyone around him would have been much better off if he had never lived. At the point when he was seriously considering suicide, an angel named Clarence allows...
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For this week's Gambit, I wrote a cover story about how Louisiana became the setting for a bunch of reality TV shows the last few years. One popular genre of Louisiana reality TV is shows about the backwood folks of the state's swamps and bayous ? a trend set by History's Swamp People.…
An event note, per Legalize Louisiana: "Do not bring any illegal substance to this rally."
Grassroots marijuana reform campaign Legalize Louisiana has organized a series of statewide rallies tomorrow, from New Orleans to Shreveport. The group's statement is as follows:
The group demands policies creating safe and free access to cannabis medicine, for the promotion of human health in Louisiana; industrial hemp should be utilized to boost our state's economy and the health of her ecosystems; that personal use should be decriminalized, and that commercial use should be taxed and regulated, which will create justice where there is now abuse, and, simultaneously, reduce Louisiana's world-record incarceration rates.…
The summer movie season starts in early May, but the Hollywood studios spend much of the year jockeying for position as to which specific weekend each blockbuster will open. So generally speaking, it's one major release (plus a few smaller ones) every Friday from here on out until September.…
Above, watch the Stooges Brass Band perform "We Make 'Em Say Ooo" live in the studio (courtesy of Red Bull). From the same session, here's "Why," featuring Mannie Fresh.…
The second rendition of René Bistrot (700 Tchoupitoulas St., 613-2350) is set to open next week, on Tuesday, May 15. It?s the return of a restaurant that had a great run prior to Hurricane Katrina and the latest move from a chef, René Bajeux, who has made a lot of them lately.…
Today we're officially launching Gambit Mobile, a new and better way to get Gambit listings and news on your smartphone.
Rather than attempting to replicate the experience of reading a newspaper, but doing it on a tiny screen, we've completely rethought what our readers want out of mobile technology.…
City Councilmembers Jon Johnson and Cynthia Hedge-Morrell were both absent from today's Joint Disaster and Recovery/Housing and Human Needs Committee meeting today.
The meeting, a presentation on property demolitions from members of Mayor Mitch Landrieu's administration, was the first since Johnson ? who serves on both committees as a regular member ? and Hedge-Morrell, who serves as an alternate on the Disaster and Recovery Committee ? walked out in the middle of last week's regular meeting, leaving only four members ? one short of a quorum ? for the remainder.…
At last week’s U.S. Conference of Mayors, nearly 80 of those in attendance voiced their support for marriage equality. In that number: mayors of places like Lima, Ohio and Hallandale Beach, Florida. New Orleans didn’t make the cut. Now, I like Mitch Landrieu. I like him a lot. He’s one of the smartest men I’ve [...]
Many of us bitch and moan about the commenters on NOLA.com. To the site’s credit, it’s doing a better job of moderating these days, but it’s still pretty easy to find racist, homophobic, inflammatory remarks lurking below the fold. I mean, I’m not asking anyone to curtail her right to free speech — if you [...]
Since New Orleans isn’t directly in the path of Hurricane Irene, I haven’t heard as much discussion about the storm and all that she threatens to disrupt as I normally would. But of course, Irene is likely to cause a lot of damage, and at the very least, she’ll put a serious damper on people’s [...]
In case you haven’t heard, tonight is the Louisiana SPCA’s “Pause 4 Dinner” dine-around. If you’ve never taken part in an event like this, never fear: it’s simple and straightforward. Just head to dinner at one of the many participating restaurants. There’s a range of spots on the list — from the very affordable to [...]
We are having a great time celebrating Louisiana's birthday this year. I decided the Bicentennial is a great time to recognize some of the incredible talents, personalities, successes and even some blunders that have come from or through our state.
I developed a list of the 200 most notable people in Louisiana history. It is not necessarily a list of our greatest, most popular or, even, most significant people. It is a compilation of individuals whose influence was felt in Louisiana, but also spread beyond our borders.
It is hard to believe that 2012 is already here. When I joined the Department of Wildlife and Fisheries team in 2008 I could not have imagined how much I would enjoy my time here or how quickly the time would fly. True, we have had our share of disasters to work through, but overall, [...]
There are plenty of videos from Jazz Fest on YouTube, not all of them officially sanctioned. But Jazz Fest and YouTube and Dell are cooperating to webcast many live sets from the second weekend and highlights from the first weekend over the next three days (May 4-6).…
The Hollygrove name has lately been turning up on menus at more and more New Orleans restaurants, where it?s practically become a byword for locally-sourced food. Coming up on May 14, you can see a lot of these same restaurants at Hollygrove Market & Farm itself for its annual Party in the Garden.…
Survey two levees that breached in 2005 and the neighborhoods in between during a bike tour Sunday, May 6. See the improvements made during the past six years, learn some history, get some fresh air and exercise ? all before the gates open on the final day of Jazz Fest 2012.…
DISCLAIMER: In no way are we trying to invade anyone?s privacy, but it?s fun to hear about the great places celebrities are visiting while they?re hanging out in New Orleans. We?re appreciative of the people who are way more famous than we?ll ever be for visiting our city and state, spending their money, and sometimes even contributing to our rebuilding and recovery efforts.…
Urbanist, activist and community organizer Jane Jacobs once said, "Not TV or illegal drugs, but the automobile has been the chief destroyer of American communities." Known for her role in cancelling neighborhood-invading highway development in Manhattan and Toronto, she believed neighbors could come together to explore their own communities and find unique solutions to their neighborhood's problems.…
Friday offered a rather diverse lineup at Jazz Fest, with performances by everyone from R&B elder statesmen Little Anthony and the Imperials to New Orleans rapper Mystikal, Rodrigo Y Gabriela's fast and furious guitar strumming to Ziggy Marley's reggae/pop, Cajun firebrands Feufollet to the countrified rock of Grace Potter and the Nocturnals.
Adam Yauch ? hip-hop revolutionary, filmmaker, humanitarian, Rock and Roll Hall of Famer and punk rocker from Manhattan ? died Friday, May 4. He was 47.…
The trendsetting daily-deals service Groupon seems to be approaching irrelevance. Once a way to snag significant deals at local businesses, these days Groupon offers vouchers for serial killer tours and yoga classes you'll never use.…
Three weeks after Sheriff Marlin Gusman's announcement that the Orleans Parish Prison's (OPP) House of Detention would close, the last group of inmates was removed from the building today.
"The House of Detention is now a closed chapter in the history of the sheriff's office and the city of New Orleans," Gusman said at a press conference, minutes before the few remaining HOD residents boarded a bus taking them to other Orleans Parish Sheriff's Office facilities.…